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How Do I Choose My Life-Time Partner (Wife)

Posted by Sustines Laplana, 7 January 2008 at Category/ies: Personal
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When I was 16-year old, choosing a woman to be my life-time partner or wife based on preferences was not really on my mind. What I was thinking is that, any woman who would love me, whom I loved, and would want to become my wife, can really be my wife.

But now, I am a little bit strict in choosing a woman. This is because I want to build a family that can be considered as the role-model in the place where we’ll settle. And before wooing a woman, I first ask my self questions like:

Is she a member of the Church of Christ?

Yes, I am looking for a wife only inside the Church of Christ. There are a lot of beautiful ladies out there, but I never consider them as candidates to be my wife.

Now, why I am doing this? Well, it’s because religion can be the cause of the couple’s conflict with their relationship. Just imagine a couple of different religions go on their own and separate ways to attend religious activities. The wife attends Catholic Mass while the husband attends another congregation’s worship service. Now, what if they already have children; I’m sure children will be confused where to go with. Will they go with their father or with their mother?

Besides, it’s one of the teachings of the Holy Bible that the believers should not marry with non-believers.

Is she an active member of the Church of Christ?

Her membership to the Church of Christ is really important to me. However, it doesn’t mean that when a woman is already a member of the Church of Christ then she’s already qualified. I am actually considering her activeness with the Church of Christ.

You know, I consider those inactive as fake members of the Church of Christ. Because for me, the true members of the Church of Christ are those who follow the teachings taught to them even if no one is watching them.

Am I her first boyfriend?

Whether I am the 20th boyfriend that she has, it doesn’t actually matter as long as during the time that we engaged in a relationship I am alone in her life. But I will be glad and be proud of if I am her first boyfriend. However, it’s really hard to find a woman who doesn’t have boyfriend before my entrance to her life because I observed that even those who are still in the elementary grade have boyfriends already.

Is she a virgin?

Marrying a virgin is really what I dream of. How nice and wonderful thinking that your wife experience her first sexual intercourse with me. I’m sure her minds and heart while playing sex are focused on me. She can’t think of other guys while I am on top of her. She’ll never even compare me and how I play sex with her to the other guys.

But on these days that we tend to adopt the western culture, I don’t how many of the women I saw are still virgin.

Who are her friends?

There is a saying that says: “Birds of the same feather flock together.” And the other saying says: “Tell me who your friends are and I will tell you who you are.”

I think, from the two sayings above, the reason why I am considering their friends in choosing a woman is already clear. Remember that you can’t immediately notice who really she is by just looking at her. You need to know her friends and barkadas too to finally tell who she is.

More…

I consider a lot of things, and I will tell you more on my next post about it.

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13 Responses to “How Do I Choose My Life-Time Partner (Wife)”

  1. rara says:
    January 8, 2008 at 10:42 am

    anu po ang religion ninyo? INC po ba kyo sir?

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  2. rod says:
    January 8, 2008 at 3:07 pm

    im a member of Church of Christ too, and im married for almost 4 months now well of course my wife is also member of Church of Christ hehe.. pre! dyakono na ako sa January 12 yahooo!im the youngest deacon in our local

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  3. misgana says:
    January 8, 2008 at 3:21 pm

    I totaly agree with you, first thing is that you must be ready for for every thing. You have to be carful in choosing.A life time partner is the one thing that happen once in your life time. God has given as a great gift that is a free will. If you are ready dont every thing will be clear for you and you are going to find you perfect match. I want to say is dont harry to every thing. God bless you

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  4. SELaplana says:
    January 8, 2008 at 6:35 pm

    i’m glad po na may mga kapatid palang naligaw sa blog ko. thanks a lot for visiting me here.

    to misgana >>> actually I am just waiting for the woman who is coming from God…. I am already 31… matanda na rin hehehe

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  5. MELVS says:
    January 8, 2008 at 9:56 pm

    hello po.. tama po talaga kayo…isa rin po ako sa masiglang nanunungkulan dito sa aming lokal….sana wala na pong maligaw ng landas sa atin..hehehe Goodluck po sa inyo..sana makahanap na kayo ng kapananampalataya natin…hehehe God Bless Us sa mga naghahanap pa ng mapapangasawa! hehehe…HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL!

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  6. evelyn binarao says:
    January 15, 2008 at 2:53 pm

    Yes,choosing a lifetime partner is not only relying based on your own choice but by God’s will & guidance
    so that he gives you the right man/woman to be your wife/husband to be.As it is written in the bible thus,”ang bahay at lupa ay minamana sa magulang, ngunit ang mabait na asawa ay galing sa Diyos”.Hope you’ll find the right woman for you.God bless & more power!

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  7. auie^_^ says:
    November 13, 2008 at 7:57 pm

    nakaktuwa nmn kmusta po mga bros & sis nghhnp ako ng pwedeng gift for long distnce relaiotnship ntgpuan ko wsite n to…tama po un….sna nga ito na rin ang bigay sa’kin ng Dios.
    If may advise pa kau, I want to read more…

    regards po sa inyo salamt sa blog na itoc”,)

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  8. Nakedi says:
    June 19, 2009 at 7:04 pm

    I its a question not a comment,i want to know when do u know that this time its love because there are handsome men of God out there,active in the church of christ but how do u know that its love without conditons

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  9. lyka ramos says:
    December 29, 2010 at 5:51 pm

    no……………………

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  10. jobpranuelas says:
    April 2, 2011 at 12:52 am

    parehas talaga tayo ng rason kapatid kya hangang ngayon single prin. pahanap din nga ako gusto ko sana tupa kaya lang tiwalag ako dahil sa trabaho ko seaman kasi. but my faith ganon prin binibilang ko prin sarili ko na INC prin ako kc handog ako na susunugin pero time will come na babalikloob ako sana wag akong patulan ng Ama sa mga kasalanan ko ngayon at ipagkaloob nya na mkabalik ako INC. bigyan mo ko txtmate 25 to 30 yrs old pra mthimik n isip ko mhirap wlang asawa magulo isip. sana magkaroon tyong mga INC ng blog na doon lahat ang naghahanap ng to be wife or husbund pra di na tyo maligaw sa mga kambing

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  11. jobpranuelas says:
    April 2, 2011 at 12:59 am

    ito pla e-mail add ko jobpranuelas@yahoo.com bka meron kayong e recomend dyan 25 to 33 yrs old dahil 35 na me. naantala pag aasawa ko mahabang estorya about family coz im the breadwinner kasi

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  12. jobpranuelas says:
    April 2, 2011 at 1:01 am

    gusto ko handog pra parehas ko ring matigas ang ulo… biro lng… kalimitan kasi kung sino pa ang handog yon pa ang suwail

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